This week, reading a newspaper, I found a very interesting article: they did an interview with the child psychiatrist Pajno Franco Ferrara. Kuijt response to his friend, I decided to bring the interview, because, the university professor, advises methods to protect children from the dramatic news events and severe psychological trauma. According to Professor Ferrara Pajno children under the media bombardment that insistently tells the dramatic events of the news, runs a destabilizing effect because these facts are not in the line of continuous positive existence, ie, falling asleep with the thought of a better tomorrow. According to him, parents can explore on television and on the news published by newspapers to make sure that certain things do not go so cruel to directly affect the most vulnerable, children and the role of the adult toward the child is the exercise of protection. Serenity is not an option for the child so to speak, but a duty. Explore what is usually the parents do, or should do, on many aspects of the lives of their children. Well they must do so even when captain dramatic episodes, and if you abolish this duty also means that parents no longer have any role. This is a way of saying that too many parents take to download the burden of education on the school. It can not be just so, all delegate, and waive the rules more difficult. An example is the expectation, because many fathers and mothers have refused to teach children the joy of waiting. It 's a shame because the effort, expectation and commitment are a decisive factor in the satisfaction of our desires. But this should teach it, communicate it. Instead many shove the shortcut; which is much easier because the child is happy. This is not the case with only children, but they do with themselves first, then they do with children who are the gifts before Christmas, the gifts before the promotion and all good things before the birthday, before the party. The result is that the gift, or rather the prize is more valuable because it becomes a habit. Pajno Ferrara, then, does not want to criminalize the television, which could play an important and valuable, but can be devastating if used incorrectly, as all means of mass dissemination. Therefore, parents must commit to read, explain, interpret and decode the message. Do not read, do interpret, assimilate it directly from their children, so wrong. The professorre then says he does not understand why everyone runs if they see a child in the street alone and no one does anything except a little spent the afternoon in front of the TV or Internet, in blissful solitude. It also feels that the repetition of violent images can "normalize" the tragedy, it can feel like that and somehow cause or at least acts giusificare emulation; repeat trivializes the crime. Permit to emulate him because the fact is no longer exceptional, but it becomes normal. It is known that certain facts can not be hidden because everybody talks about it, but parents must take responsibility for their interpretation with their children. They can not get home dead tired and stand in front of the TV to watch the sequences of the crime with the children who stuff themselves with chips, like a movie, like a soap opera. If the thought of a good child goes off, start the anxieties and illnesses. Positive thinking about the future, even if sometimes breaks up, it must be restored as soon as you would mend a rip in the fabric of existence. Of this, parents have to worry about first of all, before the teacher, because the thought of an emotional child is not the teacher, are the mother and father. Eventually, Franco Ferrara Pajno, recommends that teach children the feelings of warmth and understanding. This need not applies only to children but also for adults and lasts for a lifetime. There will be a peaceful and positive adult first if there was a child with the same characteristics, that is, a creature that could run the first steps of his life on the green lawn of fiduacia in tomorrow.
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